I have been diagnosed with fibromyalgia. I have around the clock headaches, extremely low energy, sore spots on my body, aching joints and muscles, neck pain, back pain, I have a hard time concentrating or focusing, have anxiety, and stay worried and stressed all of the time and I can't help it. These are all symptoms of fibromyalgia and everything I have tried hasn't worked. I have 4 children who need more of me than what they are getting due to my physical condition. What is the best cure for this?
I have had fibromyalgia for over 10 years and when I first got it, I felt pretty much how you described.
It took me years of research and application to find what works best for me. Every person is individual, so you will have to go by trial and error, but here is some of what I do…
1. Take an antidepressant. I've tried many prescribed by my doctor and found that even St.John's Wort works very well. The antidepressants raise your seretonin levels, (the feel good chemical in your brain,) and you just generally feel better all over.
2. Get some exercise every day. Not too little, but not too much. Too little will allow your muscles to become stiff and sore but too much will make them ache like crazy. I find yoga and walking to be the two best exercises for me. I do them every day and my body feels 1000% better.
3. Eat a healthier diet. Too much sugar, white flour, fat and carbs, seem to exasperate the condition. Try to stick to natural foods, whole grains, fresh fruit and vegetables.
4. Get enough sleep and rest. Try to get 8 hours of sleep each night if possible. If you have what I do, and wake up each night and toss and turn, try taking a herbal sleep remedy. Valerian and passionflower worked very well for me. They sell sleep remedy blends in health food stores and I find they really help.
5. Mediation and relaxation…even if it's only for 5 minutes a day, will make a big difference. I know you said you have 4 children, and I have 5, all boys, so I know it's really hard to get any time to meditate or relax, but it's really, really, important if you are going to be any good to them. You have to take care of yourself.
6. Journalling. Again, I know this takes time, but it is the best way to get your feelings out of you. If you don't have someone you can share you feeling with, then write about them. Holding all your feelings inside causes a lot of tension, and I believe that's where and how Fibromyalgia starts. Once I started writing, and crying, releasing some of my pain and withheld emotions, I really started feeling better.
I wish you all the best of luck. You are living with a difficult chronic condition. Take good care of yourself. That's always the best place to start.
Take care.
Kathy